Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Unconditional Love

 I love my children, with just about all that I have. But it's funny you know, because they didn't do anything, they didn't love me first, they didn't 'prove them self worthy', they aren't 100% obedient to my every demand, command and want, they don't always smell the nicest, behave the best, look the prettiest, they arn't perfectly quiet and submissive, and yet with just about all that I have (need some left for God & my hubby) I love them. Regardless of how ridiculus things some times gets.

I remember hearing someone or a group of people talk about a fool I once knew. His mother would ALWAYS tell him how WONDERFUL he was and clearly those amongst this group lacked the inner knowledge that this mother obviously had. Hey! I was young and silly once. We said that his mother gave him a big head and THAT was why he was so... so... horrible. But NOW I can see the value in what this mother did. She loved him unconditionally, and told him so. He had confidence to be who he was, and none of us could hack it, he didn't care if we told him he was err.. an idiot... because he knew the truth in his heart. There is a difference between confidence and pride (without humility).

Gary Chapman writes; “Unconditional love is a full love that accepts and affirms a child for who he is, not for what he does. No matter what he does (or does not do), the parent still loves him…..Conditional love is based on performance and is often associated with training techniques that offer gifts, rewards, and privileges to children who behave or perform in desired ways.)*

I often hear words spoken about unconditional love and I guess that I have been playing with the true meaning behind it over the past few weeks/months.

Regardless of what my children have done, what they do, how they behave, what they do not do, etc etc etc I LOVE THEM with just about all that I have. I tell them hundreds of times per day that I love them. Even while they are BUSY playing I'll call out to one of them and tell them that I love them, or tell them to come to me then tell them that I love them, or I'll sign language that I love them when we are out and too far away to talk. I want them to have not even a doubt in their hearts that I love them unconditionally.

But it brings me to the thoughts of the Fathers love. It also is unconditional. I love God not because I did something right to win his favor but because he already loved me, Regardless of ALL the failures in my life, unconditionally he loves me... Now that's Grace!!
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Lover by Trade,

If a boy can work in a car shop and learn how to maintain and fix a car and be called a 'mechanic',
If a child can go to school and be called 'educated'.
If a teen can enter into uni and complete a 4yr degree on teaching and be called a 'teacher',
If a person can go to Tafe, finish a certificate and be called a 'youth worker',

then I can be called a Lover by Trade.
With 6+ years experience as a wife,
5+ yrs experience as a mother,
28+yrs on earth experiencing love, being loved, and loving...
I don't need a certificate, or a degree, or a piece of paper...
(But I'd sure have liked to have gone to Uni & gotten a degree in marriage and parenting PRIOR to saying I DO - Might have made the first 6yrs more bearable perhaps?!)


There is no one more skilled, more talented, more capable, more able, more willing, more knowledgeable, more wise, to be the wife of my husband, and the mother to Isaiah, to Amalia, to Jarah, & to Avigail.

There is no one that has a more vested interested in the well being of Michael, Isaiah, Amalia, Jarah or Avigail then I do.

There is no one that cares as much as I do for these people.

No one that loves them like I do.

No body knows them like I do.

No body could do a better job with them then I can/do.


& as for you? & your husband? & your kid/s? The SAME THING APPLIES!! Don't under estimate your worth & DON'T LET OTHER PEOPLE EITHER!!!


Now... I wonder what the authorities will say next time I tell them my occupation?

What do I do? Oh! I am a LOVER BY TRADE :)
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Monday, May 30, 2011

A Year of Home Schooling - Our First Year

This is more for our records then anything else.

A year has passed since we 'started' our 'official' home schooling. By all meanings of the word we started homeschooling the day our baby was born. The time came when my then 4yr old was crazily hyperactive and out of control behaviour wise. He was so bored all he would do would be to irritate me. The kid had too much 'free time' so I ordered my first set of official homeschooling books and we got started.

I am fairly certain that I learnt more than he did. For example, my then 2yr old would steal his work out of his folder. So I started home schooling her too. Behaviour and attitude is more important then the quantity of work done. There is nothing wrong with planning but flexibility is the key. Flexibility is great but you need to be prepared with a variety of activities at any given time. As time and seasons change so does the methods/activities/sources of schooling.

We did a variety of 'lessons' from shapes, colours, counting, alphabets, animals. Following instructions, bible readings, craft, outside play, car schooling, singing, errand running. Some activities are games, others puzzles, drawing, listening, talking about, practicing, natural learning.

Natural learning is the best option (as yet) in our home. The kids seems to learn more through play, talking/listening, experiencing. You'll often find me around town. Usually I am home schooling them of some sort. Even if it is simply sitting in a cafe. Obedience, manners, and behaviours are important in this place. Believe me! We need as much practice as possible.

I most definitely prefer the method of learning/teaching through NATURAL LEARNING over other 'methods' of learning/teaching. The knowledge seems to stick longer whilst the understanding is beyond my level at around that age or even when in high school.
The picture below was during a shopping trip. Amalia & Jarah sitting in a double trolley. Jarah fell asleep and Amalia was holding him up so he could sleep - so sweet, so serving.
Grocery shopping is one of the best places to 'school' children. There are so many things to see, look at, behaviours to train, stuff to talk about. Science, Maths, Social Studies, English, LOTE. Grocery shopping is easier (I find) by using it as an opportunity to school. Other shops the children are not so great at being in :(

The children learnt lots through play and yes I do refer to play as being home schooling. More so when the play involves something that I could pass off as 'educational' by school standards. Just below the children had been hunting for worms amongst our garden. They also made mud which naturally came with a backyard full of mess. They learn how to play together, fight and resolve conflicts, to be kind and gentle. Important qualities for adults to have in the work environment.
They learnt a little bit about responsibilities. Feeding and watering the fat rabbit (the dog chased it out of its cage and it ran away a year later).
We did science in the kitchen. Heat produces boiled water and cooks our lunch. All these sorts of things and more take place in that normal, every day home (school) environment. I want these children to have the ability to live independently of me (one day).
They learn how to show love to one another, kindness, gentleness, servant heart attitude. This particular time it was Amalia (age 2) who told Jarah (age 1) to lie down and held him while he drank his milk.
A favourite activity (maths) is problem solving, puzzles, activities, etc.

Practicing forming alphas and numberals on our laminated work sheets used with white board markers and rubbed off for more practice. We have multiple books on this sort of thing with a wide variety of activities that will be useable for multiple children on multiple occasions.
Isaiah taught himself 'take away' using these chooks. We bought 5, 1 died then we had 4, etc etc etc. They learnt the life cycle of a chicken, responsibilities of feeding/water and checking for eggs.
So many different things to learn, things to teach, ways to teach them, activities to do, resources available. 

It will be interesting to see how different this year goes for us with our 'schooling', and then how different it goes next year when we go "Official" with our states requirements and are registered for the first time.

The more that we do it, the more I know that for *US* I am fully convinced that this is what *WE* are meant to be doing for our children. I love it. I love the opportunities. I love being with these children (most of the time). I love teaching them (I am fairly certain I have a natural teaching gift). We have a lot of fun and we have alot of fights. It is a MAJOR sacrifice of time, energy, emotion.

I have (personally) found that most people are supportive of this decision in our lives. Although I often find that people think that I am amazing for doing so - not true. I'm just your typical crazy mother.

When it comes down to it, its the qualities on the inside that count for more than the qualities on the outside.

5 Things I am Thankful for:
1. That in the country I live in I have the option to home educate
2. Home Education is as cheap or as expensive as *I* choose it to be
3. Learning alongside the children
4. Supportive behaviours/attitudes from family/friends/acquantences and strangers
5. Educational DVDs for when I just 'can't do it!'

Home School Curriculum Completed:
Rod & Staff ABC Series (pre-schoolers)
Variety of activity books
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Dear Avigail,


Oh how I Love Thee,

You are so perfect, so precious, so pretty. 11 weeks old tomorrow, where has the time gone? It is hard to imagine that it was that long ago that I rubbed my tummy to feel your kicks and how you would start thumping when your Papa walked into the room and he'd talk. Hard to believe that you gave me so many torturous months of morning sickness and that I would willingly do it again just for you.

Your so wonderful. You slept through the night since you were 5 weeks old with 3 nights you've woken in the middle of it for a feed. I don't mind. 10 hour sleeps for something so small - I'm amazed.

You feed well, burp lots and spew all over my clean clothes. It's become an expectation.

Your hair has thickened up and grown, your chubby rolls on your back been smoothed out and the cradle cap settled down.

You prefer a vertical position and being cuddled by me and the swaying/bouncing thing that has become a part of my nature. You hold your head up high and look around at your environment.

When mummy goes to curves you sit happily and look around before calling out for someone to get you out to look around and cuddle. You will happily smile and chatter to strangers and let them snuggle and coo.

You have fitted into our family well, your siblings adore you, kiss you, smother you, cuddle you and help you. Just the other day Jarah said "Oh Bubba!" when you started stirring in the shopping trolley.

These times have gone by way too fast that I have shed tears for it. I have cherished so many moments with you, not wasting them. I guess you learn how the time flies when your not the first bubba.

Yesterday and Today you have been abit unsettled. Is it something I ate? Cries, vomit, cuddles and more cries. Sorry my bubba I am doing everything I can for you at the moment.

With Lots of Love
Loads of cuddles
Mum xx
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Tough Love: Puppy vs Baby Advice

Meet my new baby, Annie.  She's a red-headed cockapoo.  She's almost 5 months old.  So far, she's been a fun addition to our family.  I'm so happy to have a baby in the sling again!  She loves it and will stay there for a long time.  She likes to be held and has gotten so much attention in our family.  She's been very social and content to let anyone pick her up and carry her around. 

We had a couple of dogs growing up, but they were outdoor dogs and had rotten behavior.  They weren't allowed to really be a part of the family.  I have never considered myself an animal person -- still don't -- but I am rather enjoying this dog.  I wanted an indoor dog because I think they are typically better behaved.  Plus, we have a pool and not a great backyard for a dog.  I am also grossed out by the fur of an animal that lives outside most of the time, tracking it in the house.

My sister doesn't have any children, and I remember when she held Darcy as a new baby, she was stiff as a board.  She held her arms straight out, totally awkward.  The baby didn't mold to her body.  It was painful to watch!  She had no idea what to do with a baby!  That is how I feel with a puppy.  I have no idea what to do or how to train it.  We got the dog on "class night" and I was asking several couples about different things with the puppy.  Over the course of the week, I have gotten more advice on how to train a puppy!

The conclusion I've come to is that people parent their babies like they do a puppy.  Some of the advice I've gotten this week in regards to the puppy reminds me of things I've heard about parenting a baby. 

*Don't let her sleep in your bed.  It disrupts the pack order.
*Don't let her manipulate you.
*Don't get her out of her crate if she is crying or barking.  She'll eventually like being there.
*She needs to know who is her master.  If she misbehaves, put her on her back and hold her chest until she   stops moving and fighting you.  You want her to be submissive.
*If she pees in the house, put her nose in it and "spank" her, telling her "no!"  Take her outside.
*If she doesn't pee when she is let out of her crate, put her back in and try again in a few minutes.  Keep putting her in the crate until she pees.
*If she doesn't poop where you want her to, move the poop and keep showing her where to go. 

As a non-dog owner up until now, I can safely say that I've seen people treat their animals like their babies or children.  They talk about them like they are their children.  When people are actually talking about their children, they will pipe in about their dog(s).  I've even thought someone was talking about their child one time and was shocked to find that they were referring to their dog.  I've always found this strange, and kind of annoying, to be perfectly honest.

To hear all this advice this week, it's made me think, it's no wonder people parent the way they do!  They have dogs and then along comes a baby and they think it's the same thing!  They don't want to disrupt pack order and won't let the baby sleep in their bed.  They put the baby in their crib (ie. crate), not letting the baby manipulate them by crying and trying to get you to come get them.  "Eventually they will like being there."  I just couldn't stop thinking of all the cry-it-out methods of "sleep training."

I see people swat toddlers hands or bottoms telling them "no!" and then putting them in time out, just like a puppy that peed on the carpet.  We want our children to be independent, but submissive, knowing who is their "master." 

Babies are not like puppies.  There may be similarities in behavior, but the way to deal with them is not the same!  Human babies have the need to be with their mama continuously.  You are your baby's environment (a quote from lactation consultant, Mellanie Sheppard) and they require that constant contact.  A baby cannot manipulate you.  Period.  You will have more confident, independent children if their needs are met by a parent that they trust.  If their needs (physical, mental, and especially emotional) are not met, you will have a misbehaved child.  My 14-year-old is capable of manipulation now, but he was not as a baby, or even as a toddler!  

I am not arguing with how to train a dog -- what do I know?! -- but so many things I've heard reminded me of things I've heard people say about parenting their babies.

*Don't let them sleep in your bed.  They'll never leave. 
*They have to learn to fall asleep on their own.  It's OK to let them cry.
*Don't let them manipulate you by picking them up or holding them all the time.
*Teach them independence.  They need to teach themselves how to fall asleep on their own.
*Swatting and spanking teach them to respect their elders and also right from wrong.
*If they don't behave, put them in time out until they learn.

Love on your baby.  Carry her in a sling as often as possible.  Breastfeed her continuously.  Watch her grow and thrive.  Allow her to sleep next to you and breastfeed throughout the night.  You will have a well-behaved baby, toddler, child.  Their needs are met, they feel loved, they trust you.  They will know that you value them as a human being.  You will have a mutual respect for one another, from one person to another.  

I guess knowing what I know about about babies has made me wonder about all the advice I've gotten this week about the puppy.  When new parents are given this advice about their baby, they believe it.  They follow it, even if it doesn't feel right to them.  My girls, and my husband for-that-matter, have not liked some of the advice we've gotten.  They think it seems mean.  Are they following their instincts?  Should we listen to that, or will we have an ill-behaved dog as a result?  We certainly don't want that!  So, we follow the advice by people who have dogs already, just as new parents follow advice by people who already have children.  That, as we know, is not always the best idea! 

As we try to get to know Annie, we are finding that she has her own little personality.  I guess we'll take bits and pieces of advice we've received, and throw the rest out that doesn't feel right.  We may create our own little hellion in the process and we'll have no one to blame but ourselves. I can't help but think that love and tenderness cannot be a bad thing in raising a baby of any variety.  I hope I'm right on this one!

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Sunday, May 29, 2011

The Bully's at it again - Gov. Markell goes after another board ...

Delaware Gov. Jack Markell, health board at odds over proposed hospital

He supports an $18.5 million Middletown facility, but a review group recommends it be rejected

Good God Jack! 

Let's talk any random market:  Take Housing:  The housing market has a glut of homes that aren't selling.  Builders are still building.  And homeowners are ending up in short sale or foreclosure at record rates.  Real Estate agents are out of work.  Mortgage offices have down-sized or closed.

Now let's talk the healthcare markert:  Delaware has a system that requires that a major medical facility receive a certificate of need before it can be built.  It's pretty straight forward.  If an area doesn't warrant "need" permission for construction/operation is not granted.  What constitutes need?  The Delaware Health Resources Board has been entrusted with the duty of verifying "need."  The committee assigned with assessing a recommendation for the greater board has not verified a need for the proposed facility even though the project would create temporary construction jobs and approx. 80 employment positions.

What happens when facilities are built where there is no discernable need?  Let's see? The type of healthcare facility proposed would likely accept health insurance and medicare/medicaid.  It would draw patients/residents from nearby facilities that already have open beds.  A gluttony of beds creates instability.  When a facility has a low census or patient population, employees work fewer hours. Sometimes employees are laid-off.  Regardless, fewer hours mean less pay per period, meaning less consumerism.  Employees that are under-employed run greater risks of being unable to provide for their families.  Employees would be forced to seek other employment options, perhaps jumping ship into one of those new 80 positions.  Since the census at their previous facilities would be lower, those positions are likely to remain unfilled/unneeded.

Jack - for all the political maneuvering you've injected into the process that you've deeply tainted, you will fail to create 80 new jobs.  In all likelihood, those 80 positions will simply be uprooted and transplanted into the new facility from other previously operating facilities.  That's not job growth.

And lest you are forgetful, in the last two decades, healthcare facilities have closed.  They have been unable to stay afloat financially.  I am reminded of a Wilmington nursing home run by the former-PUMH that closed in 2000.  When the market is diluted, closure happens.  Look at schools across the nation.  You'll find some shells that once housed learning and academics.

Here's an idea:  Jack, stop running your next campaign and start running the state's government.  It's time.
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What I heard the other day...

I saw the cat run past... 

... I saw my oldest run after... 

He was saying

"Kitty! I won't make you stuck! 
Kitty come here! I won't make you stuck!"


Happens at everyone's house right?

5 Things I am Thankful for:
1. The retardest kitty E V E R ! ! !
2. The giggle amongst the difficulties
3. The child's realisation that perhaps the kitty doesn't ACTUALLY like being tied up
4. Me knowing that he knows what is mean and what is kind
5. Flea collars
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Saturday, May 28, 2011

Main Street Introduces us to One of NY Worst Teachers, What High Stakes Testing Means for Good Teachers

From : http://www.workingamerica.org/blog/2011/03/08/education-deform/

Education Deform


Meet one of the worst teachers in New York (http://www.nytimes.com/2011/03/07/education/07winerip.html?_r=1&pagewanted=1&ref=us&src=me
according to the testing formula by which she’s measured. Stacy Isaacson is at work in the school building from 7am to 5:30pm. According to her students:

“Definitely one of a kind,” said Isabelle St. Clair, now a sophomore at Bard, another selective high school. “I’ve had lots of good teachers, but she stood out — I learned so much from her.”

And

“I really liked how she’d incorporate what we were doing in history with what we did in English,” Marya said. “It was much easier to learn” — which, of course, is what great teachers strive for.

The test scores that landed her in the bottom 10% of teachers:

Her first year teaching, 65 of 66 scored proficient on the state language arts test, meaning they got 3’s or 4’s; only one scored below grade level with a 2. More than two dozen students from her first two years teaching have gone on to Stuyvesant High School or Bronx High School of Science, the city’s most competitive high schools. 

Because of the complicated formula used to calculate her performance, Isaacson can’t exactly understand what the issue is.

In plain English, Ms. Isaacson’s best guess about what the department is trying to tell her is: Even though 65 of her 66 students scored proficient on the state test, more of her 3s should have been 4s.

As a result, she won’t get tenure and could even be in line to be laid off. And mind you, this is because of something that’s supposed to identify and reward the best teachers.

So that’s one way the education “reformers’” passion for learning is playing out in our schools. Meanwhile, budget cuts across the country mean increased class sizes.

Over the past two years, California, Georgia, Nevada, Ohio, Utah and Wisconsin have loosened legal restrictions on class size. And Idaho and Texas are debating whether to fit more students in classrooms.

Los Angeles has increased the average size of its ninth-grade English and math classes to 34 from 20. Eleventh- and 12th-grade classes in those two subjects have risen, on average, to 43 students.

What difference does that make?

In the 1980s, Ms. Bain persuaded Tennessee lawmakers to finance a study comparing classes of 13 to 17 students in kindergarten through third grade with classes of 22 to 25 students. The smaller classes significantly outscored the larger classes on achievement tests.

In the decades since, researchers, including the Princeton economist Alan Krueger, have conducted studies that they say confirm and strengthen the validity of the Tennessee findings.

But hey, the Secretary of Education disagrees. He says what matters is good teachers, even if the classes are big. Which brings us back to Stacy Isaacson and the question of what exactly we mean by “good teachers.”

It sure is comforting to know we have this empirically-minded education “reform” movement, isn’t it? How else would we know that we should ignore both numerous studies on the effects of class size and what experienced teachers say about the difficulties of teaching big classes, and replace bad teachers like Stacy Isaacson with good ones who could effortlessly handle class sizes that rise every time budgets are cut?
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Education Deform - The Glossary

I stumbled upon this little piece of deformist heaven and would be remissed if I didn't share it with you all:
http://www.arthurhu.com/index/edgloss.htm  Thank You Arthur Hu, whoever you are, for taking the time to break the education deform culture down so that it can be understood by non-educrats. 

Here's a sampling.  Really just a sampling.  So many more links and deeper explanations and humor can be found through the link above:

  • Block Schedule : Education Reform: Arthur Hu's Index
    • Another questionable school "reform" program, typically replaces 7 1 hour classes with 4 longer periods on the assumption that you can't learn enough in an hour and too many interruptions.
    • Instead of taking math, english, music and PE throughout the year, you take "4x4", four courses in the first half, and four in the second half, or eight for the entire year. Critics say students get bored after an hour and simply waste time, leads to disasterous reductions in academic performance, and just a bad idea.
    • Music teachers say students drop out because they can't schedule music throught the year, and the SAT and AP people say it has a terrible effect on math scores as well because you go for a half year without doing any math or science.
    • It supposedly is well suited for school to work work assignments, but that makes it even harder to schedule in music or PE.
    • Another variation is to teach groups of up to 70 students
  • Big Anti-Block Schedule Attack Pieces:
    • The Case Against Block Scheduling by Curator: Jeff Lindsay , Studies show students perform worse, and there are problems with retention, attention span, and less time spent teaching.
    • More on Block Scheduling Here (with links) http://www.arthurhu.com/index/block.htm

  • Constructivism The teacher no longer teaches, the students "construct" their own learning
  • Discovery Based Learning Constructivism asks why spend 10 min just teaching kids when they can spend a week "discovering" the pythagorean theorm or that circumf = 2 * Pi r?
  • Drill "Drill and Kill": Constructivists believe that practice is bad.
  • High Performance Organization Marc Tuckers' term for the "new organization" where every worker performs management functions in the 21st century, but Ford of Mexico does will with 9th grade level workers!
  • Higher Order Thinking If you don't get high scores with basic skills, then maybe you should work on higher order thinking instead. If you can figure things out, then you don't actually have to learn or know anything.
  • Higher Standards movement Standards not based on fact-based knowledge, promoting whole language and new new math, throwing out norm-based references for new standards with arbitrary cutoff "proficiency" points based on what people think kids can do, not what real kids can do.
  • Invented Spelling Don't even try to point out incorrect spelling, they will eventually get it right, in fact, encourage them to make up their own spelling. Teachers can now spot classes that are taught whole language when none of them can spell.
  • Job Shadow Spend class time hanging around employees at a real job site instead of spending time learning academic skills.
  • Learning Education and Teaching are Out. Learning is "in".
  • Reconstitution If students don't study, fire the teachers.
  • Standards Based Reform Movement Latest mutation of Outcome Based Education. Led by Marc Tucker's NCEE, a witches brew of OBE, STW, progressivism, constructivism, performance base assessment, and other reforms backed up by blue ribbon commision findings and the best PR money can buy. It covered up to half of children educated in US by mid 1990s.
  • Science is just a social construct Who needs objective facts?
  • Science Integrated Curriculums Whoopee This Stinks! Mix up all kinds of science instead of distinct "real" Biology, Physics or Chem.
  • Site Council Elaborate scam to make it look like your school is making its own decisions, but really a fancy way to insure district policy is rubber stamped at the school level.
  • Social Promotion New policy is to ban social promotion, but the alternative is retention, or pretend that everyone performs or can be made to perform at an acceptable level.
  • Progressive Education The underlying model for most new reforms. Critics say they are based on Marxism and Socialism in setting equality for all at a very low level.
  • Restructuring Our education system is in crisis, and it's not ready for the high-tech 21st century, so lets' toss everything we know about an education system that works, and completely change it with every new fad we can think of. \
  • Natural Learning Style :( Studying hard and memorizing lots of facts isn't natural, so we want to discourage underperformers from emulating the nerds who get high grades and test scores "unnaturally".
  • Core Knowledge E.D. Hirsch system that students actually need to know content, not just "learning skills for lifelong learning". They should know how to add and divide, and spell, not have to figure it out when they'll need it. A top enemy of reform, up there with Saxon.
  • Correct Answer An archaic concept that is damaging to self esteem of students who are judged to have "incorrect" answers. Questions are rated on a "rubric", and often questions which demonstrate mastery of a concept can be given full credit even the the answer is not numerically correct.
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Friday, May 27, 2011

U.S. Reforms Out of Sync With High-Performing Nations

Published Online: May 27, 2011
From Edweek.com
http://www.edweek.org/ew/articles/2011/05/27/33international.h30.html?tkn=ZQXFEjpQurjNXpuKPqFDrgc16E2VSyy8rXRo&cmp=ENL-EU-NEWS1


U.S. Reforms Out of Sync With High-Performing Nations, Report Finds
By Stephen Sawchuk


The United States’ education system is neither coherent nor likely to see great improvements based on its current attempts at reform, a report released this week by the National Center on Education and the Economy concludes.

The NCEE report is the latest salvo in a flurry of national interest in what can be gleaned from education systems in top-performing or rapidly improving countries. It pushes further than other recent reports on the topic by laying out an ambitious agenda for the United States it says reflects the education practices in countries that are among the highest-performing on international assessments.

Among other measures, the report outlines a less-frequent system of standardized student testing; a statewide funding-equity model that prioritizes the neediest students, rather than local distribution of resources; and greater emphasis on the professionalization of teaching that would overhaul most elements of the current model of training, professional development, and compensation.

“I think we have been for a long time caught in a vicious cycle. We’ve been unwilling to do the things that have been needed to have a high-quality teaching force,” including raising the entry standard for teacher preparation and requiring prospective teachers to major in a content area, said Marc S. Tucker, the president of the NCEE.
“We’ve been unwilling to pay teachers at the level of engineers. We’ve been solving our problems of teacher shortages by waiving the very low standards that we have. We have been frustrated by low student performance, and now, we’re blaming our teachers for that, which makes it even harder to get good people,” Mr. Tucker continued.

The paper also states that progress on any one of the reform areas alone is unlikely to result in widespread boosts in student learning. All efforts, it says, are interconnected and should be linked to a coherent vision of what students should know and a system for ascertaining whether they achieve those goals.

The report also praises the United States’ progress on clearer, common academic standards in English/language arts and mathematics as a first step in defining such outcomes. But it notes that the success of that venture will depend on its ability to connect such expectations to the other pieces of the country’s education system.

Major Findings

Once a topic primarily reserved for academics, the “international comparisons” discussion has exploded over the past few years, with policymakers, pundits, and teachers’ unions arguing that better educating students is crucial to the nation’s economic success.

It has also been the subject of considerable federal interest. U.S. Secretary of Education Arne Duncan helped convene a major forum of education leaders from 16 countries in March, and he commissioned the Organization for Economic Cooperation and Development, a forum representing a group of industrialized nations, to produce a report about what lessons could be learned from the results of the Program for International Student Assessment, or PISA. ("International Leaders Urge Nations to Raise Status of Teachers," March 30, 2011.)

The NCEE report draws both on qualitative case studies of other countries’ systems and on the quantitative data and extensive background surveys produced as part of PISA. Much of the analysis incorporates information from the OECD report commissioned by Mr. Duncan, which NCEE also produced.

It builds on the former efforts, however, by contrasting the practices of those countries with undertakings in the United States.

For instance, the report notes that no other country has grade-by-grade national testing, pointing out that such countries as Singapore and Japan tend to use such exams sparingly, only at the end of primary and secondary schooling. The tests are closely linked to curricula and carry stakes for students in terms of progressing, rather than being used for school or teacher accountability.

Such countries also have much higher entry standards for teachers and require greater content knowledge, which is better integrated with training in pedagogy. In general, the report states, such efforts have helped to elevate the status of the profession, which is reflected in higher pay, more autonomy, and additional career opportunities as teachers advance.

Finally, teachers’ unions are prevalent in top-performing jurisdictions such as Finland and Ontario, Canada, but work in a “professional” rather than “industrial” mode. The report says that U.S. teachers must give up blue-collar work rules like seniority rights and recognize difference in performance in exchange for being treated as professional partners, who are given autonomy and trusted to diagnose and solve instructional problems on their own.

The report also takes aim at what it deems “myths” of international comparisons, such as the notion that other countries educate only an elite corps of students, or that their scores are higher because of less-diverse student populations.

The report concludes by calling on the federal government to fund a competition, modeled on the Race to the Top program, to help states adopt a comprehensive system of education practices used by other countries.

States, it says, should be the key level of government to help move toward a more coherent education system—as they have been in provinces, such as Ontario, that are part of federated nations.

On Track?

At an event where the report was released this week, panelists outlined different opinions about whether the agenda embodied in the report reflects or diverges from the current education reform efforts in the United States.

In his remarks, Secretary Duncan highlighted similarities between the two. He noted that, for instance, high-performing systems like Singapore use bonuses, scholarships, and salary supplements to reward great teaching and to attract teachers to hard-to-staff schools or shortage areas. The Obama administration has pursued such policies through the Race to the Top and other federal competitions.

“Clearly, our education system is not as far down the track as those of top performers, nor are we anywhere near where we need to be to win the race for the future,” Mr. Duncan said. “But we are not off-track or chugging down an abandoned spur line.”

He also praised the work on the common standards, which was underwritten by experts convened by the National Governors Association and the Council of Chief State School Officers. Forty-four states and the District of Columbia have adopted those standards, which draw heavily on curriculum guidelines used in top-performing countries.

Mr. Duncan stated, however, that the federal government would not prescribe a national curriculum as part of its support of the common-standards agenda. That comment came as an apparent rebuttal to a group of scholars and education advocates who have accused the Education Department of overstepping a federal law prohibiting it from mandating a national curriculum. (" 'Manifesto' Proposing Shared Curriculum Draws Counterattack," May 18, 2011.)

Other commentators, though, outlined perceived differences between international practices on teaching and the United States’ current efforts.

For instance, the Obama administration supports the idea of linking test scores to teacher evaluations. But many international education leaders at the March forum raised concerns about such policies.

“The perception is teacher evaluation based on narrow student test scores, and no country thinks that’s a good idea,” noted Vivien Stewart, the senior adviser for education for the Asia Society, a New York City-based nonprofit that facilitates policy dialogues between the United States and Asian nations, in an interview. “The evaluation systems in these countries tend to be fairly broad,” said Ms. Stewart, who is writing a paper about the issues discussed at the forum.

Singapore, she noted, has 16 domains in which evaluation takes place, including a focus on achievement, professional contribution to the school, community involvement, and relationship with parents.

Data on student performance and teaching are widely used to improve practice, but not disseminated in the public way they are in the United States, she added.

Challenging Views

William H. Schmidt, a professor of statistics and education at Michigan State University who has extensively studied other countries’ curricula, generally praised the NCEE report, especially for its focus on defining a specific body of knowledge students should master. Mr. Schmidt, who has also researched vast differences in the math skills of middle school teachers prepared in the United States, said teacher preparation should be the next frontier. ("U.S. Middle-Grades Teachers Found Ill-Prepared in Math," December 19, 2007.)

“We’re really at a precipice here. We’ve got these common standards, a nationally specified set of clearly focused standards. The problem is what comes next,” he said. “The U.S. has such a short attention span.”

The report’s general principles have been debated by other international scholars, however, who have raised concerns that the movement to common standards and tests could lead to more rigid schooling and lockstep expectations for students.

Many of the report’s recommendations also do not fit neatly within current U.S. debates about the use of assessments or how to upgrade the quality of teaching.

For instance, the national teachers’ unions have been among the strongest proponents of less standardized testing for accountability and more autonomy for classroom teachers. But doing away with seniority, which the report characterizes as a relic from “industrial” unionism, could be challenging.

The American Federation of Teachers has been reluctant to discard seniority as a factor in layoffs, noting that evaluation systems capable of distinguishing teachers by performance are not yet widespread.

At the release event, however, AFT President Randi Weingarten said that the union is open to discarding some work rules as long as teachers are treated fairly and maintain due process rights. She pointed as an example to the “thin” contract signed by AFT-affiliated teachers in a New York City charter school and the Green Dot charter-management organization, which among other provisions does not specify work hours for teachers.

And increasing teacher-preparation quality means tackling the perception of teacher education as an easy route to a diploma, a change that will have consequences, noted Mari Koerner, the dean of the education school at Arizona State University, a top preparer of teachers. She described losing teacher-candidates after the college increased the rigor of its preparation programs.

“These sentimental views of teachers [in the United States] drive me nuts,” Ms. Koerner said at this week’s forum. “[Preparation] is not about whether you love children; it is whether you can teach children.”
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Thursday, May 26, 2011

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

La Recovery School District to see funding cuts

New Orleans schools are slated to lose voucher, insurance money from state


dvocates for both public and private schools in New Orleans are engaged in a furious lobbying effort at the state Capitol this week, pushing lawmakers to restore education financing that has been stripped from Gov. Bobby Jindal's proposed budget.

As is, the spending plan taking shape in Baton Rouge would slice out part of the operating budget for the Recovery School District, the state body that oversees a majority of public schools in New Orleans. It also would eliminate funding for the state's voucher program, which was supposed to provide private school tuition for about 2,000 students in Orleans Parish this fall.

Combined with other cuts to state Department of Education programs, the loss of financing would have "a crippling impact on our ability to deliver high-quality educational programs to our students, families, local school districts, schools, and educators," Acting State Superintendent Ollie Tyler warned last week.


The cuts were part of $139 million in spending reductions ordered by the budget-writing House Appropriations Committee last Tuesday, which has provoked a well-orchestrated backlash from Jindal's administration. Advocates for parents and schools in New Orleans have joined the fray, scrambling to make their case to lawmakers ahead of the budget debate that will take place in the full House beginning Wednesday.

Legislators have until their June 23 scheduled adjournment to settle their differences with the administration.


As a reminder - Early on in the RTTT application process, the Recovery School District was cited a successful example of the RTTT models by various education deform advocates such as Mass Insight.


From the LaRSD website:
http://www.doe.state.la.us/divisions/rsd/

Overview


With its unique governance model – designed to support autonomy, flexibility and innovation – the Recovery School District (RSD) is a leading reform model for educators around the country and even around the globe as they search for solutions to transform low-performing schools.

Established by the Legislature in 2003, this state-administered school district intervenes when schools are deemed as failing for at least four consecutive years. In the 2009-10 school year, the RSD is providing direct or indirect support to 113 schools in 14 school districts across Louisiana. With its strong focus on recruiting and supporting highly effective teachers and school leaders, the RSD has established a successful track record over the course of just a few years and is garnering national respect for its significant progress.
The expected funding cuts in La will impact the district's ability to provide insurance coverage for its facilities.

Huge hit on insurance


The biggest hit to New Orleans schools would be the loss of state money that normally covers building insurance premiums. The Appropriations Committee stripped the $11 million set aside in the Recovery School District's budget for covering those premiums.

That means RSD schools will have to pay an average of $350 per student every year to cover the premiums themselves, according to an estimate from the state department of education, an expense that would fall on both the independently run charter schools that predominate in the RSD and the district's traditional schools.

That rate is somewhat inflated because Louisiana law requires that state bodies like the Recovery School District buy insurance through the Louisiana Office of Risk Management, rather than looking for the best possible price in the private market.

Everyone from individual school leaders to RSD Superintendent John White and members of the state board of education has mobilized to point this out to lawmakers.
The second area of funding in question is around vouchers.  The voucher program funded tuition for 1700 Louisiana students this year.
Quest to preserve vouchers


At the same time, proponents of private school vouchers are waging their own battle to survive the budget ax.

"We really have our armies out to make sure everyone understands the potential impact on our students and on this state," said Monteic A. Sizer, the top Louisiana official for the Black Alliance of Educational Options.

The alliance is a fervent backer of the New Orleans voucher program. Last year the state put up $8.7 million to pay for the private school tuition of about 1,700 students in New Orleans from kindergarten through fifth grade. With support from Jindal, the program was set to expand into middle school this fall, covering about 2,000 students with state funding of $10 million.
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Psalm 91 Prayer

I dwell in the shelter of the Most High, I rest in the shadow of the Almighty. I say of the Lord, "He is my refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I trust."

Surely he has saved me from the fowler's snare and from the deadly pestilence.
He has covered me with his feathers, and under his wings I find refuge; his faithfulness is my shield and rampart.
I do not fear the terror of night, nor the arrow that flies by day, nr the pestilence that stalks in the darkness, nor the plague that destroys at midday.
A thousand may fall at my side, ten thousand at my right hand, but it will not come near me. I will only observe with my eyes and see the punishment of the wicked.

I make the Most High my dwelling - even the Lord, who is my refuge - so no harm will befall me, no disaster will come near my tent. For he will command his angels concerning me to guard me in all my ways; they will lift me up in their hands, so that I will not strike my foot against a stone. I will tread upon the lion and the cobra; I will trample the great lion and the serpent.


Because I love you Lord, you have rescued me, you protect me, you acknowledge my name. I call upon you, and you answer me; you are with me in trouble, you deliver me and honor me. You satisfy me with long life and show me your salvation.
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Monday, May 23, 2011

Baltimore MD Charter Schools to receive more funding than traditional schools.

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A Penny A Load!

I have a great post I'm working on, but the laundry soap got brought up this week - and since we are dogsitting this weekend, - I think I'm going to take the opportunity to make this be the weekly post!  I feel like I'm cheating a bit, but I hope this will be useful for you, especially in these economic times.

I've been making my own detergent for about 2 or 3 years now.  I can afford laundry detergent.  I don't know why I keep doing this!  I guess because I can.  I also can my own beans, but I could buy them at the store too.  I like being self-reliant.  I can make yogurt, too, but I don't really think I save money on that one, so I don't do it.  But I could if I had to! And I love that feeling, of knowing I am resourceful.

I posted on my Facebook page this week that I make my own detergent and promised I'd post my recipe here. 

Ingredients:
3.1 oz bar Ivory soap
1 cup Borax
1/2 cup Arm & Hammer Super Washing Soda (found at Kroger)
Water

Tools:
5 gallon container
Cheese grater
small bowl
stove pot
long stirring spoon (I got mine at a restaurant supply store.)

Instructions:
Pour 5 cups of water in the stove pot and heat it just shy of boiling.  You want the water hot enough to be able to melt the soap, but not hot enough to boil over.  While the water is warming up, use the cheese grater to shred the bar of soap.  Add the shredded soap to the pot of heater water and stir the mixture until the soap is completely melted.

Once the soap is melted, pour 3 gallons of hot water into in 5-gallon bucket.  To the 3 gallons of hot water, stir in the melted soap mixture.  Once it's mixed, add the 1/2 cup super washing soda and stir until it's dissolved.  Pour in 1 cup borax and stir again until dissolved.  Lots of stirring!

You can add essential oils to your laundry detergent to make it smell good, but I never have.

Cover the container and place it somewhere it won't be disturbed.  Let it cool overnight.  It will begin to gel as it cools.  You'll want to put it in smaller containers.  I stir mine once it is "set" though because it does better in my new washer.  There will not be suds in your washer using homemade laundry detergent.  This was hard for me to get used to.  I don't like to pour it directly on my clothes either, as it has left white "residue."  I put the soap in the washer and let it run for a bit and then add the clothes.  Works great that way.

Use 4 oz, or 1/2 cup, per load.  One recipe yields 442 oz which should get you through 110 loads of laundry!  The breakdown, price-wise, is about a penny per load.  Not bad.
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Saturday, May 21, 2011

The Birth Next Door and Upcoming TCBN Meeting this Week

You can now buy your copy of The Birth Next Door from my blog!  Just click on the button to the right This book of birth stories is from Tarrant County, Fort Worth, Texas and it benefits the Tarrant County Birth Network, a non-profit 501(c)3.  We have grown to be the largest chapter of BirthNetwork National in just over a year.  Our primary focus is making Mother-Friendly maternity care a reality for all families of Tarrant County. 


TCBN MEETING THIS WEEK
If you live in the Fort Worth area, we invite you to be a part of what we are doing.  We meet the last Thursday of each month at Lou's Pavilion on the TWU campus from 7:00-9:00 p.m.  This  month, the topic is Nutrition for Pregnancy and Beyond.  Our speakers include The Mommypotamus and Dr. Betsy Taylor, of Crossroads Natural Health.
Attendance is free and open to the public.  Lap babies only please.  Don't leave without introducing yourself to me.  See you there.
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Weetbix Vs Vitabrits

Let me tell you about a conversation we had this morning:

Michael: "are you feeding the kids the vitabrits?"
Me: "Yep! I want them out of my life" (I loathe vitabrits)
Michael: "me too!"


Now let me tell you an ARGUEMENT we had a few years ago:

Michael: "Get the vitabrits, they are healthier for you & cheaper" (he read the label)
Me: "No way! They taste different!"
Michael: "No they are the same"
Me: "they don't even LOOK the same!"
Michael: "they are EXACTLY the same - just less sugar"
Me: "Exactly! They are GROSS!!"
Michael: "I'm going to buy some, and put it in your weetbix box"
Me: "Then I will think that weetbix is gross"
Michael: "No you wont" gleefully giggles at his fool-proof-plan "You will say these weetbix are yummy and I love them alot"
Me: "I've had vitabrits before and they are gross"

It might have got heated, I might have cried, things might have got broken, but neither let go of our vitabrits/weetbix stance.

I paid the extra and bought the weetbix...


Now come forward a few weeks ago... 

Vitabrits on special so cheap I couldn't resist and bought 4 boxes.

I retain my stance. Vitabrits are GROSS! They LOOK different, taste different, smell different.

Weetbix remains the superior product.

But this time... Michael agrees with ME...

So.... I think I won that one... And am gleefully awaiting my apology... That one took a few years but that's okay. I still win...

5 Things I am Thankful for:
1. Kids eat disgusting vitabrits at a rate of 6 vitabrits per meal
2. I have less than an hour to get myself and four kids ready for church
3. Kids have eaten breaky already - more time for finding clean clothes and shoes etc
4. The lunch Michael is going to buy me for being the winner! (NO vitabrits please!)
5. WINNING SOMETHING!!!

I was exagerating about breaking things over it...



Now, if you were in church before I arrive please turn your head the other way when we walk in late cos I was busy blogging this instead of getting ready... Looks like another non-brushed-hair-style for me *grins*
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Post-Apocalyptic Life??? Brains...

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See You on the Other Side ...

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60 Minutes ...

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Two Hours and Counting ...

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Three Hours and Counting ...

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Four Hours and Counting

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Friday, May 20, 2011

Count Down to the Rapture

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Can You Name This Place? And Guess the Year?

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Delaware's Para-Educators Need a Livable Wage

Rep. Kowalko has a thoughtful piece in the News Journal Op-Ed today.
Check it out here: Our School Paraprofessionals Deserve Better Wages

At C&E 1st, We wholeheartedly agree. We can only hope that our legislators at-large value our paras as much as we do.  They are critical to many classrooms and programs.  The travesty is these devoted Delaware educators do their job for a pay that puts them below the poverty line. Who would take that job when they can make more at McDonalds?  For the most part, truly dedicated professionals whose desire to give children the support they need to realize success for outweighs the benefits of the job itself. 

My daughter's educational life has been touched by many paras.  She holds a special place in heart for them.  There's a picture of Ms. Rachel and her puppy Daisy in my kitchen.  Another of Ms. Kim and Ms. Fran taped into the collage of family photos on our cabinet doors. She's been fortunate enough to have the same para, Ms. S. for the last three years.  These educators and the love they've shown her have helped her fulfill her potential.  Without them, their instructional help and their emotional support, she would not be the wonderful child that she is today.  Thank You Paras!  I hope the state appreciates you as much as we do!
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Thursday, May 19, 2011

Palate Cleanser: Quotes containing the word "illustrious"

The martyr cannot be dishonored. Every lash inflicted is a tongue of fame; every prison a more illustrious abode.  - Ralph Waldo Emerson

It is folly for an eminent man to think of escaping censure, and a weakness to be affected with it. All the illustrious persons of antiquity, and indeed of every age in the world, have passed through this fiery persecution.  - Joseph Addison

It was my care to make my life illustrious not by words more than by deeds.  - Sophocles




Read more: http://www.brainyquote.com/words/il/illustrious176022.html#ixzz1MnuFKlmV
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Tuesday, May 17, 2011

weightloss

Yesterday marked the first day of my 'new' and uhm... only... weightloss program...

Actually after having lots of little kids in a short period of time (4 in 5 years) with 5 pregnancies you could say the little ones have wrecked havoc on my body. Its fairly weak :(
Actually it is more than fairly weak. It's down right painful!

Sleeping on the shonkiest mattress...

Carrying 1-2 babes on my hips (for the past 5 years)...

Feeding babies...

Car accident...

Pregnancies...

Little - No exercise...

A little bit too much chocolate...

A lot a bit too much chocolate ice cream...

Lots of cry inducing back pain...

It's on... Physio gave me the clear, Dr gave me the clear,...

I am now a ***Curves*** member :) with a three times a week commitment...



I do reckon that morning sickness is the most effective weightloss regime but it is painful and somewhat sickening? But it does work... I mean not eating for months and everything you do eat you throw up. Oh but if you don't eat something you throw up anyway. Either way...

I did lose 14kgs in 2 months and didn't put it back on... (but that's another story)...

Then we got pregnant... and I lost a bit more... and put it all back on... I'm clever like that!


So. Now I have a whole lots of core strength to gain and 20kgs to lose...

... & am (thinking) about going on a chocolate and ice cream fast... 

& I want to get my name on their wall... (((Someone lost 80kgs AWESOME!!)))




5 Things I am Thankful for:
1. Busy working hubby who gets the pleasure to pay for my membership *thanks honey*
2. SIL who joined with me
3. That I can take my kids with me
4. They open at 6am so I can go before Mik goes to work
5. The energy I suddenly gain afterwards (& the energy loss when I realise that its only 9am and I've been up for 3hours and finished all schooling :( ) I need sleep now...
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I want...

Amalia says "I want much" when she wants lots

Isaiah says "I want lots"

Jarah says "More" with the desperate plea in his eyes whie frantically rubbing his chest (sign language for please)

Amalia says "I want 5 chips" never more never less

Isaiah says "I want a little bit"
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Delawarean Maurice Pritchett Joins the Joey Wise Outfit

For those who have followed the Broadie Toadie Joe Wise's saga through the years - from the days when he financially sank the Christina School District to his less than glorious time as a Florida superintendent and beyond to his latest education venture, Atlantic Research Partners:  The Prominent Delaware Educator and Community Leader, Mr. Maurice Pritchett, has joined the Wise family.  "Pritch" as he's known locally was even named in Wise's ARP response to the Illinois RFP for a lead partner in that state's education reform movement, http://www.isbe.state.il.us/apl/pdf/ipz/proposals/atlantic_research_lead.pdf :


9. Partner with Randy Sprick's CHAMPS and Delaware-based Maurice Pritchett's community models for improving the support of students from poverty backgrounds, parent supports and training, positive school culture and discipline, and teens with other personal challenges such as pregnancy, drugs and alcohol and other criminal activity.
And here, under the section headed:


"iii. Provide a summary of the qualifications of the staff who would be involved in the project and list their specific experience and success with school intervention efforts. Describe to what degree these staff will be involved in the day-to-day work with the district and school(s). In an appendix include one-page résumés for all individuals involved with the turnaround efforts."

Maurice Pritchett —Community Engagement Coach. Pritchett has a great deal of experience in parent and community outreach. He has served community director positions in many school districts throughout the country.


From the Atlantic Research Partners website: http://atlanticresearchpartners.org/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=2&Itemid=2

Mr. Maurice Pritchett, Faculty, Atlantic Research Partners

Maurice Pritchet, Sr. is a highly-regarded and well-recognized education and community leader who has worked tirelessly for change in the City of Wilmington, Delaware. Reared on the east side of that City, Mr. Pritchett received his Bachelor of Science Degree in Elementary Education from Delaware State University in 1965 and his Master’s Degree in Educational Administration in 1974.

Mr. Pritchett’s distinguished career as an educational leader and change agent includes serving diverse needs in Cecil County School District (Elkton, MD), and ultimately in the urban setting in which he had grown up: Wilmington, Delaware. He taught at the Elbert School there and subsequently served as Community School Director at the Bancroft School of Wilmington—the very school he had attended as an elementary student. Upon earning his M.A. in 1974, Mr. Pritchett assumed the duties of Vice-Principal of Bancroft Elementary and later went on to serve as this urban school’s Principal for over thirty years. While serving as Principal, he developed educational programs and strategies specifically focused on meeting the needs of Wilmington students- often in collaboration with teachers who had taught him during his own childhood years.

Mr. Pritchett attributes much of his success to those who mentored him during his tough childhood in a difficult city. He names for example Nathan “Doc” Hill, a community leader at the local YMCA, as a man instrumental in awakening in him a desire to learn—and to make a difference in the lives of others. He points out that Doc Hill ingrained in him as a child an understanding that it does take a village to change the lives of children, and he stresses that no child achieves academically without the support—and reasoned expectations—of the adults in his or her life.

During his many years of service to urban neighborhoods and schools, Mr. Pritchett has received multiple honors, accolades and civic awards. Notably, he has been honored as the State of Delaware’s National Distinguished Principal, and was nationally recognized by United States Secretary of Education Richard W. Riley while serving as Principal of the Bancroft School.





Congratuations to Mr. Pritchett! Children & Educators First sincerely hope that you enjoy a productive relationship with Wise's Atlantic Research Partners (or as its more commonly refered to: WARPed)!



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Monday, May 16, 2011

You just have to be...

flexible...

When you have lots of little kids...

So often this past few weeks I have had these plans to do this and to do that...

With a goal of doing something else... Today's two goals were to put the clean washing away *done* & get the kitchen cleaned up *done*.

Oh & an appointment at 9am...

So... Come 8:50am I jump into the car and wahla... flat battery... hubby left the lights on... and lights drained my battery...

Okay... so new plan... Reschedule appointment for after 1pm so hubby can start my car...

In the mean time two goals get ACHIEVED...

THEN 1/4 of a 'wish-I-could-goal' gets done (Took wooden chairs up the street to 'the shed' and painted in chalk board paint)

Return home to get cleaned up and lunch on the table...

Hubby comes home for lunch...

Hubby says WATCH THIS!!! http://youtu.be/FNcMgGGOwzE 

So I did... and have a giggle.. its kinda clever...

So come around 12:50pm he tries to start my car... cept it wont start... so he goes to work...

and I call "pop" (Michael's dad) & he comes around to start my car... but it wont start...

SO I cancel my (2pm) appointment for the SECOND time today...

Meh...

2:05pm I am driving down the road... with a cancelled appointment...

So what do I do??? What every mum does when she has to keep the car running when it's got a sniff of fuel left...

Macca's drive thru :)

& go get fuel...


See?? You just have to be flexible when your a mum to lots of little kids...

5 Things I am Thankful for:
1. A 'pop' to call to get my car going... twice in two weeks...
2. Flexible appointment times... its tomorrow at 9am now
3. Goals getting done
4. extra goals getting done
5. my 'school-free' day
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My Christmas Letter -- In Blog Form

I had a friend ask me a while back if I thought if a good birth - or "bad" - made you feel closer - or further - from that child.  There was a time when I might have said yes, but I do have the perspective that time sometimes gives us, now that my children are older. 


I don't need to rehash the births of my children, but my 2nd birth was my most emotional.  I felt so excited that I had accomplished my goal of an unmedicated birth.  I won't say it was my best, but I definitely experienced that "birth high" that we sometimes read about.  She did not look like my baby though.  She was dark skinned with pitch black curly hair.  People always asked me if my husband was "ethnic."  She is now 12 years old, and while our relationship is probably better now than it has ever been, she has always preferred her Daddy.  We have had very little in common and our relationship has frequently been somewhat forced.  She is very serious and has an intense moral compass.  She loves to write and remembers everything I've ever said, which has often come back to haunt me!

My first baby (now 14), on the other hand, looked just like me and my side of the family when he was born.  Still does.  I was always close with him and thought that I could love no child as much as I loved him.  I had an epidural for his birth.  I do not feel that it had any bearing on how I felt about him.  Of course, now finishing up his freshman year of high school, he thinks we are total idiots.  His friends are more important than his family and music is the center of the universe both playing it and listening to it. 

My 3rd pregnancy, labor, and birth were all the hardest.  Abby constantly had her foot in my ribs. The harder I pushed at her foot, the harder she pushed back.  It was the only pregnancy we did not plan.  This child was determined to get here!  Between you and me, I have the strongest connection with #3 (now 10 years old).  She looks nothing like me (dark olive skin and dark hair), but I have the most in common with her.  She has been, and continues to be, the best conversationalist.  In fact, she's the most mature of the entire family!  She's organized, self-motivated, has great "style" (which makes her fashion-conscious Daddy proud), is confident, and has a great sense of humor.  She should have been born the oldest because she would have been a great babysitter.  Currently, and formerly, she is very un-babysittable, taking direction and instruction from no one, mainly her big brother and sister.

Darcy (6) was probably my "easiest" birth and we've always been good.  No complaints.  She is my mini-me.  She's a firecracker and just lights our home with non-stop excitement!  We've had a good, solid connection since she was born.

So, the answer to the question?  No, I think our children's births are often more about us than it is about them. I will say that how their personalities were in the womb is very much how they have been out of the womb.  Daymon was constantly in motion, I hardly ever felt Vena move, Abby constantly made her presence known, and Darcy just always went with the flow. 

As I re-read over this post, I realized that a lot of what I wrote was similar to my Christmas letter, which I've been told over the years, is so brutally honest, it's everyone's favorite!  I hope you enjoyed a little slice of my crazy children's personalities and what I endure day in and day out!
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Sunday, May 15, 2011

How Today's "Reformers" Will Fail (Again)

March 30, 2011

Posted At: 01:15 PM
Author: Alexander Russo
Category: John Thompson , Think Tank Mafia
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Thompson: How Today's "Reformers" Will Fail (Again)

Back when I was an excitable young Teamster, I had the same anger toward my corrupt union leaders as today's "reformers" have towards the educational "status quo." But a union reformer shared the old Okie wisdom of "don't go off rootin' and tootin'..." and, eventually, democracy prevailed in our labor movement. Today, data-driven school "reform" is a two-barreled shotgun blast from the hip. The first target, is bad teachers. Given the harm that the bottom 5 to 10% of teachers cause, the quick-draw approach of the accountability hawks is understandable, even though their scatter-shot aim is bound to destroy the careers of many good educators. But the second shot is directed towards our best educators. Anyone old enough to have an institutional memory, and recall the lessons of earlier unsuccessful reforms, is fair game. Since most of today's "reforms" are recycled quick fixes that have already failed, top-down policy wonks want to make sure that young educators are not exposed to the lessons that veterans learned during previous experiments.

History may not repeat itself, but it rhymes, and David Labaree explains why today's accountability hawks are destined for the ash heap of history. I hate the title of his new book, Someone Has to Fail, when the real message is how to avoid "cuttin' and shootin.'" Labaree explains why good teachers are so adept at derailing the best laid plans of the educational social engineers. He documents the shared characteristics of a century of educational reforms, but he does not paint reformers with a broad brush. Instead, Labaree celebrates great teaching. He then explains why reformers invariably feel the need to defeat the best educators in order impose their will on schools.

For learning to occur, teachers must establish a special type of personal relationship. As much as we try to hide it, children are conscripts, but learning will not occur unless kids are persuaded to be willing participants in their own education. "A surgeon can fix the ailment of the patient who sleeps through the operation, and a lawyer can successfully defend a client who remains mute during the trial," writes Labaree, "But success for a teacher depends heavily on the active cooperation of the student." Teachers must become adept in managing chronic educational dilemmas. Teachers must embrace the ambiguity in the "local ecologies" that are known as classrooms. "As a teacher I'm not applying laws, I'm choosing from an array of overlapping rules of thumb; my primary skill as a teacher is my judgement."

In order to lead a classroom, the teacher must develop a persona that is similar to that of a method actor. In one sense, teaching is a dramatic performance art, but it only works when the teacher draws deeply from his or her own soul. The teacher persona, says Labaree, must be likeable and tough, and it is not something that "a teacher puts on lightly or sheds with ease." Teaching "is a form of method acting that lasts not merely for the duration of the play but for the course of an entire career. It is not just a way of practicing a profession but a way of being."

Once a teacher has learned how to motivate students, she is unlikely to change because some new theory is mandated, and that leads to endless conflict with reformers. "Teachers draw on clinical experience; reformers draw on social scientific theory. Teachers embrace the ambiguity of the class process and practice; reformers pursue the clarity of tables and graphs. Teachers put a premium on professional adaptability; reformers put a premium on uniformity of practices and outcomes."

Today's reformers, like their forefathers, "don't doubt the virtue of their model of reform, so they have little tolerance for teacher resistance ... The reform grid seems to carry the best ideas and highest values of our time, so practitioners of the old ways of doing things just need to get out of the way of progress." Before long, these idealists become obsessed with defeating practitioners, and this is one of the saddest parts of the story. Reformers get so frustrated with teachers that they fail to heed our first rule, "do no harm."

Labaree says that reformers could play a constructive role if they listened to David Tyack and Larry Cuban and not try to implement their policies in a pure form, but allow teachers to "hybridize" them. Labaree adds, however, that "no reformer worth his salt would take the wimpy and self-negating approach to school change that I have suggested here."

On the other hand, Americans are justifiably proud of our independence. It is good that we have rejected five year plans and other forms of social engineering. The "solution" is to embrace our messy, imperfect, non-rational world. And that is another frustrating aspect of today's "reforms." Good-hearted activists have become so angered by the way schools resist their efforts, that they have become blind to the joys of teaching and learning. - JT
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Wednesday, May 11, 2011

US Vaccine Court Has Been Paying Settlements to Families of Children with Autism as a Confirmed Vaccine Injury

Vaccine Court's own public data support link between Autism and Vaccines despite their (our government's) public denials of a link.  83 Confirmed Cases in 20 years of the 2500 total cases brought before the court.



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Getting Girs Hair Done

I don't know about you... but when I first started brushing my daughters hair and putting it up she let me no problems. But something happened. And every time I would try brush the dreads out of her wispy hair she'd cry. It could have been me trying to brush the food out, or the fact she wriggles and squirms so much that I might end up pulling her hair. Brushing her hair actually reminds me of being a small child and my Mother brushing my hair. OUCH! I wouldn't keep my head still and she'd pull my hair and it was so long (& beautiful) that it got knotty :(

So I have/had this problem were brushing the hair of my 3yr old daughter offers no peace or silence for either of us. I am sure she will have haunted memories from these experiences and need counseling at a later date.

So... You might catch her with beautifully brushed and neat, slick, shiny, clean hair but I doubt it. But if you were to this is how I would do it....

Yep. That's exactly right. See... That is not me!! So... Get some one ELSE to do their hair :)

Alternatively... Get a pretty basket/bucket/container... then fill it with all sorts of 'pretties' that is used ONLY when brushing hair. Include all necessary hair equipment (brushes, combs, hair ties, clips, leave in conditioner, spray bottle of water) and some extra things like necklaces, bracelets, shiny things, beads, nail polish. It is a lot more fun and so much more practical.

& just so you know we use the elastic type hair bands because a toddler can not pull them out and they actually hold the hair in :) Oh... and cos you can buy 300 for like $2. Bargain!

I discovered this neat little tip when I gave this princess at age 2 her brother's harmonica to hold and got her hair brushed...


5 Things I am Thankful for:
1. Pretty box of pretties
2. SIL who comes and does my princess's beautiful food filled hair... okay so she was here for another reason but still did her hair
3. Leave in conditioner sprays
4. That my daughter has soft, wavy/curly feminine hair
5. Cute pig tails

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